This New study from Canada uncovers the 16 red flags that are early warning signs for abusive partners. This is brand new research that pinpoints behaviors you should look out for early on in a romantic relationship that could indicate your partner has the potential for emotional abuse, physical violence, and controlling tactics down the road.
The study comes from the University of Western Ontario in Canada, with the goal of uncovering what factors accurately predict if intimate partner violence is likely.
I share the 16 predictors the researchers identified - ranging from pressuring you into s3x to creating uncomfortable public situations. A few are particularly concerning if they happen early in dating.
Some of the key signs to pay attention to:
- Your partner blames their ex for everything
- You feel you can't say no because your partner reacts negatively
- Your partner refuses to admit fault or take responsibility
- You have trouble focusing at work because your relationship consumes your thoughts
I also discuss talking to your teenagers about healthy and unhealthy behaviors in both friendships and dating relationships. Getting this information early helps them identify poor treatment before it becomes normalized in their relationships.
RESOURCES
- CNN article on the research: https://www.cnn.com/2023/12/12/health/early-signs-of-intimate-partner-violence-wellness/index.html
- The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text LOVEIS to 1-866-331-9474
- The National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or online.rainn.org
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00:00 Introduction
00:32 Finally, research on warning signs
01:26 Many narcissistic channels
01:47 How they hook you in
02:36 University of Ontario Study
03:24 16 Predictors from CNN
03:49 What to watch for
05:02 Start of official 16 Traits
14:13 Closing thoughts - educating kids
14:24 Reasons to share with kids
17:02 Share with friends - save a life
